What To Wear?

I'm Kelly!

My passion is to help you discover how God’s word can reach down into your heart and produce amazing transformations in you, your relationships, and your influence in the world around you.

hey there

I'd Love it!

Build it up, spice it up, you'll both enjoy the results!

TOp categories

It's one big job made up of a million little ones. You've got this!

It's the secret sauce for your Christian life.

Do you want to be able to resist attacks, be impervious to stresses, and always be capable of effective action?

You need to know what to wear.


Strength and dignity are her clothing,
and she laughs at the time to come.
Proverbs 31:25

What can you possibly wear that can guarantee success in the face of attacks, stresses, and the difficult challenges that will come your way ?

You’ll need priceless clothing.
You can’t buy it anywhere.
It has to be custom made and is only available from one Divine Design Source.

Two things characterize His designs for women:
strength and dignity (honor in most other translations)

Not the first things we might think of in describing a woman or her clothes.

But, God says these are what the really well dressed woman is wearing.
Do you recognize this photo of the Italian Fashion model that I encountered early one morning on the steps of the Pantheon in Rome?
I used her dress as an example of the Splendid Garment in an earlier post focused on Proverbs 31:22.

This is the second time our Proverbs 31 woman has been described literally wearing strength.

The Free Dictionary has a long list of definitions for strength, but I’ve included just three because I think they give us a very practical understanding of what strength is and how it allows her to be successful throughout her life and enables her to laugh at the prospect of aging.

strength ~ noun
The power to resist attack; impregnability.
The power to resist strain or stress; durability.
Capacity or potential for effective action: a show of strength.

Are you surprised at the meanings of strength?
I’ve moved strength way up on my Prayer List.
Who doesn’t need the ability to resist attacks?
The enemy is constantly attacking our thoughts, our health, our emotions. He’s looking for our vulnerabilities and plotting our downfall.
I’ve often prayed and asked God to help me take a thought captive. (2 Corinthians 10:5)
But, I’ve never asked for the strength to resist the attack.
That’s my new specific request.

And the ability to resist stresses and strain are another revelation of how God desires to strengthen us.
He knows that some trials are marathons not sprints.
We need durability, endurance.
Sometimes we need the patience and faith to wait while He works in others.

He wants us to possess the capacity for effective action.
Think of the potential in your everyday life.
Are you raising kids?
Parenting constantly requires effective action.
God is saying our Proverbs 31 woman has this ability.
It’s available to us for the asking.

Dignity, or honor, is the second description of her clothing.
The Hebrew word means ornament, adorning, or decoration, majesty, honor, or glory.
Only God can give this.
All good things originate with Him.
All beauty, majesty, comeliness are His alone to bestow.

He pours these into our lives and we simply reflect His honor, glory, and beauty.

For the Lord God is a sun and shield; the Lord bestows favor and honor. No good thing does he withhold from those who walk uprightly.
Psalm 84:11

As women, as American women, we are surrounded by a culture of youth and beauty.
Worse still, those two are seen as necessary partners.
The cultural message is that you can’t be old and beautiful.

Our Proverbs 31 woman literally laughs at the time to come.
Again, the meaning of the word adds immensely to understanding what God is telling us.

In Hebrew it means to laugh or smile upon, but mockingly or in contempt and derision.
How can she laugh at aging?

This same word is used of laughing at a person who is threatening to do much, but is able to do nothing.

Here’s the picture that immediately sprang to mind:
The little brother swinging away at the bigger brother who is standing at arms length with his hand on his younger brother’s head.
The little guy is swinging as hard as he can, but he isn’t able to connect or do any harm if he did.

That’s why she laughs at the time to come.
She’s holding it at arms length by her strength and honor.
Time can’t touch her, not really.
She has the last laugh.

Would you like more promises about strength?

    but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength;
    Isaiah 40:31

    I will strengthen you, I will help you,
    Isaiah 41:10

    the God who equipped me with strength
    Psalm 18:32

    The way of the Lord is strength to the upright
    Proverbs 10:29

    And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness.
    2 Corinthians 12:9

    I can do all things through him who strengthens me.
    Philippians 4:13

    May you be strengthened with all power, according to his glorious might, for all endurance and patience with joy,
    Colossians 1:11

    And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.
    1 Peter 5:10

Share post

+ show Comments

- Hide Comments

   add a comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Learn more

My passion is to help you discover how God’s word can reach down into your heart and produce amazing transformations in you, your relationships, and your influence in the world around you. 
 Sound good?

Hi, I'm Kelly

Blogger, Jesus Girl, Grace-believing optimist


25 Powerful Tips for  a Better Marriage Now

These actionable tips will help you to create a better marriage starting today. A perfect marriage is a myth, but a better marriage is a choice!

“When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness.” - Proverbs 31:26


© Kelly J. Grace 2021. All rights reserved. | Photo Credit | Site by TONIC