Kelly J. Grace

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Imagine Your Kids as Grownups

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Children are not casual guests in our home. They have been loaned to us temporarily for the purpose of loving them and instilling a foundation of values on which their future lives will be built.

James Dobson

Begin With the End in Mind

This is advice I swiped from a book on blogging, but it really really applies to parenting as a Christian parent.
You’ve gotta begin with the end in mind.

When you think about your kids as grownups what words pop into your head?

Successful. Happy. Kind. Loved and loving.
Nothing wrong with any of those, but do they capture your deepest aspirations for your kids?
Do they describe your biggest dreams for them?

How about this, a friend of God?

I’ve been thinking and teaching about Christian parenting for over 30 years and this idea captures the highest goal any parent can reach for with their children, to raise a child that grows up to be a friend of God.

The phrase describes Abraham and we find it in James 2:23

And the Scripture was fulfilled which says, “Abraham believed God, and it was accounted to him for righteousness.” And he was called the friend of God.

James 2:23

Is there any higher loftier more spiritual ambition than to be a friend of God?
I don’t think so. I can’t come up with one.

So was Abraham perfect?
No.
He was a flawed human who began as an idol worshipper.

But, when God spoke to him, he listened and responded.

He believed God. And we know he believed because he responded.

That’s a big significant step. Don’t rush past it. Instead, let’s turn it into a question.

How do we to get from that beautiful bundle of baby in our arms to a growing child that’s emotionally and spiritually prepared to listen and respond to God?
A child who wants to be a friend of God.

Create A Roadmap to Relationship

Know where you want to go!

Before the days of iPhones and apps like Waze, before the days of Garmin there were roadmaps. Large printed maps that showed highways and small roads so that you could figure out how to get to where you wanted to go. You could plan a route.

Your route as a Christian parent is something like this:

Point A—————————————————————————–PointB
Baby in your arms—————————–A child who wants to be God’s friend

In the coming weeks we’ll build out our roadmap.

We’ll take it step by step and travel in short spurts so the little ones can enjoy the journey as it unfolds.

Our starting point is God Himself.
Let’s begin to introduce God to your kids.
You’re gonna be surprised at how easy this is.

Let me ask you how would you introduce God to someone?
What would you say about Him?

We all overthink this!!! We don’t have to figure this out on our own. We just need to see how God did it.

How does God introduce Himself? I mean, He wrote us a big old book full of letters. How does it start?

In the beginning God made everything.

Genesis 1:1 (my own paraphrase for kids)

Genius Introduction.

Short and sweet. To the point. No wasted words. No big theological explanation.

AND—it is in fact the very first thing we all need to know about God if we’re gonna want to be His friend. Who wouldn’t want to be friends with the One who created everything?

Here’s the companion truth from the New Testament.

Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning.

James 1:17

Whisper it to that babe in your arms.
“God made everything. It’s all good. It’s all perfect. It’s all a gift from God to you and to all of us.”

Point back to God constantly as the Creator and the giver of good things. This is the first thing you want your child to ever remember knowing about God.

He created everything.
Every good gift and every perfect gift comes down from Him.
And He never changes.
The soft cotton of baby’s blanket is a gift. The strawberries of summer are a gift. A squirmy puppy covered in warm fur is a gift. Daddy’s strong arms are a gift. Mommy’s soft kisses are a gift.
Every good gift.
Every perfect gift is from God.

Do you want to lead your children into a lifelong meaningful relationship with the true and living God?

Then start with this truth. Begin today and keep bringing God into the conversation.
Introduce God as He introduces Himself, the Creator and the giver of every good and every perfect gift.

This week start the introduction by talking about God as Creator. You could wrap up your child’s favorite fruit or a favorite toy and talk about the gifts God has given to us to richly enjoy (1 Timothy 6:17).
I’m praying that God will help you and begin to reveal Himself to your kids.

This is exciting!!! 🙂

One generation shall praise Your works to another,
And shall declare Your mighty acts.
I will meditate on the glorious splendor of Your majesty,
And on Your wondrous works.
Men shall speak of the might of Your awesome acts,
And I will declare Your greatness.
They shall utter the memory of Your great goodness,
And shall sing of Your righteousness.

Psalm145:4-7


Why I’m writing this series on an old blog I kind of forgot I even had.

If you look at this blog you’ll discover that I haven’t added a post in about 3 years.

Yikes!!!
So why start this up again?
The short answer is that I have a broken heart and I’m on a mission.

Here’s what’s broken my heart: Pew Research came out with a study that found between 82%-88% of kids raised in church attending Christian homes never go back to church once they leave home at 18 for school or work.

That’s crushing.
What it means is that we haven’t been able to lead our children into a meaningful relationship with God. They didn’t fall in love with Him. They weren’t captivated by Who He is and what He’s done. They aren’t excited to be part of His plan and purposes.
Plainly put, we dropped the ball. We let them down. We failed in our God appointed mission to help our kids forge a lasting relationship with God Almighty.
I know that sounds harsh or depressing, or both.

But I believe in grace.
I believe in God working continually to redeem the lost. I believe He is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, I believe it’s never too late to start again.

For the past three years I’ve been praying about this problem, studying the subject and interacting with young Christian parents who are in the middle of raising their kids.

And I’m on a mission to do whatever I can to help them be successful in leading their kids into a vibrant faith and a lifelong friendship with God.
Parenting is a big job made up of a million little jobs. Some of those jobs are far more crucial to a child’s faith and friendship with God. Those are the things we’re gonna focus on.

Years ago when I started this blog I called it ‘A Really Full Life’.
The name comes from John 10:10 where Jesus says, “I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.”
That’s A Really Full Life. It’s a quality of life that flows from knowing God. It’s what I pray for every child, that they’ll come to know God and find in Him abundant life ~ A Really Full Life.

If you’re a Christian parent I want you to know I’m pulling for you.
The challenges you face are different and probably more difficult than the ones I faced while raising my kids.

But, God never changes. His word is always true and powerful and the Holy Spirit is still dwelling in every child of God and leading us into truth, empowering us to live it out in our everyday lives and if God is for us, who can be against us.

Today we talked about Introducing God as Creator and the giver of every good and every perfect gift.

Next week we’re exploring how we can ‘Trigger the WOW’ in a child’s heart and plant the seeds of true worship that will bind his heart to God in an outpouring of love and thanksgiving.

Now I want to hear from you.
Does any of this resonate with you? Are you already worried about a Tween or Teen? Are you wondering how you’re gonna fit anything else into your day? Do you think your kids are still too young for this?

What anxiety or concerns surface when you think about your kids growing up in the world today? What have you found that’s opened the door to a spiritual conversation with your kids?

In His love,

Kelly







The Meaning of Repentance: Are You Doing It Right?

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Today let’s talk about repentance~

  • Repentance is the first step toward a relationship with God.

You don’t have to read very far in the Gospels to find out about repentance.  It’s the message preached by John the Baptist and when John was throw in prison Jesus came and preached the same message Himself.  It must be pretty important.
What is it?

  • Repentance is a change of mind.

It happens when our thoughts come up against God’s thoughts, up against the reality of truth.  John was preaching repentance toward God and the people were baptized, confessing their sins.  These were Jews, the chosen people of God, but they held beliefs about God that weren’t accurate.
Those wrong beliefs guided the way they lived.
That’s a danger for us today.
We need to ask ourselves, “what’s the basis for the things we believe about God?”

God never ignores our repentance.
But it’s not the end result He’s after.

  • Repentance is a necessary step that opens the door to relationship with God.

It happens first,  before we can receive salvation.  Repentance happens when we ‘spiritually’ get it about God and ourselves.

Through repentance we change our minds about God ~
We let go of our personal notions of God,
and embrace the truth of Who God is, what He’s like,
and what that revelation means for our lives and our conduct.

Just look at the gospels.  It couldn’t be clearer.
From His first preachings in Capernaum (Matthew 4:17) until He makes His promise to the repentant thief crucified next to Him (Luke 23:39-43), Jesus Christ tells us to respond to the truth by changing our minds.

And it should keep happening as long as we live.
How many times a day do we sin?
That’s how many times a day we should repent.

I love this thought from Alan Redpath’s book, Victorious Christian Faith, “repentance. . .not just being sorry about something, but a change of mind that leads to a change of behavior.
In other words, repentance is being sorry enough to stop!“

Victory over sin is an old fashioned phrase.
When was the last time you heard a sermon about that?  Or read a book about it?
Today we are pre-occupied with being happy.
Being holy is passé.

But the thing we forget is that God made us for friendship with Himself.
And our sin puts up a roadblock to that friendship.
Repentance is an awareness of my own sin and enough humility to make me admit, mingled with a longing for renewed friendship with God.

Going through the motions doesn’t please you,
a flawless performance is nothing to you.
I learned God-worship
when my pride was shattered.
Heart-shattered lives ready for love
don’t for a moment escape God’s notice.
Psalm 51:17 The Message

I’d Like To Thank Those Who Helped Me

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Who helped you grow into the person you are now?

We’ve all had help getting where we are as people.
Tonight as I watched The Golden Globes I listened to the winners thank their mentors.
When I was a young wife and mother far from my own Mom God brought some special women into my life.  Of course I didn’t know they were mentors.  They probably didn’t think of themselves that way either.  They were friends with more wisdom and life experience which they shared when the occasion arose.

We hung out cooking or refinishing furniture or watching our kids play at the park.  Nothing was formal or felt like a class.  It felt like friendship.  But in a slow and steady way I was growing in understanding and the relationships in my life were, as a result, happier.   I was happier.  Having friends was great, but having friends who were willing to kind of slowly pour themselves out for me was a gift.  Years later I met a young woman who was also a young mother and the shoe was on the other foot.  This time I was the mentor, but she was a kick to be with and her friendship enriched my life.

Isn’t it strange that while stripping furniture or planting a garden you can talk freely about the real stuff of your life.  Like how infuriating a toddler can be, or how you hate it when your husband ignores you when you talk.  Those are the conversations I recall most vividly.  The smell of furniture stripper reminds me of trying to teach my daughter not to ride her tricycle in the street.  And the suggestion from a mother of four that maybe I should take the tricycle away for an afternoon and see if she’d be more agreeable to riding on the sidewalk the next morning.  No lecture or criticism, just a little dispensed wisdom while she used steel wool to get the last of the old finish cleaned away.

God makes sure we get an opportunity to learn and grow and then somewhere along the line He switches things up and it’s our turn to share what we received.  The people in our lives are tools in God’s hand.  Our shape reflects the impression each one has left.   We don’t accidentally move in across the street or get assigned the neighboring desk.  There’s a plan that crosses our paths with others.  A plan for us and a plan for then, and it’s God’s plan.

God made you as you are in order to use you as He planned.
J.C. Macauley

When Jesus Says I Will, Everything Changes

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African Mom with her hands full

Whose life isn’t a handful?

While He walked among us we made Jesus’ life a handful!
My guess:  He loved every minute of it.  His answer to our requests was always “I Will.”  Even people who didn’t ask, think of Peter’s mother-in-law,  received a healing touch.  When the disciples, excellent sailors who knew the Sea of Galilee like nobodies business, asked  Jesus to save them, He “rebuked the winds and the sea; and there was a great calm.”

Do you need a little calming of the storms today?
Leprosy, Palsy, Fevers, Storms, Demons.  They all flee at His word.
These examples and many more fill the Gospels with the I WILL of Jesus.

It’s not about us or our worthiness.
Do you think these people were so different from you and me?  They weren’t.

Jesus is still saying I Will.

This past week I enabled Gmail for a website.
I’d forgotten that several months ago I joined several (about 10) Google Communities.
I had neglected to turn off notifications and some of these communities, like Inspirational Quotes, have hundreds of thousands of members, who apparently post contributions all day, every day!

All of the sudden I had a Gmail archive of 56,000 emails.

It took a few hours to stop the insanity, but the episode made me think of God’s INBOX.
When Jesus walked among us His days were filled with meeting needs.
Like a mother with small children, He was constantly bombarded with our cries for His help and attention.
Unlike us, He never lost His patience in helping us.

For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous,
And His ears are open to their prayers. . .
1 Peter 3:12

“What do you want me to do for you?”
Can you hear Him asking?

We let the word righteous trip us up, and we say, “This doesn’t apply to me because I’m not righteous.”
Replace the word righteous with the word forgiven, now does it apply to you?

If you’ve asked Jesus to forgive your sins, then you’ve received righteousness as a gift and you are part of the ‘righteous’.

For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.
2 Corinthians 5:21

Remember, it’s not about us and our personal perfection, righteousness is a gift.
He took our sins upon Himself and suffered the penalty of them on the Cross.
Then He made us ‘the righteousness of God in Him.’

His ear is open to the righteous.
What do you want to ask?
He’s listening.

This post reflects thoughts from Matthew 8, Mark 10 and 2 Corinthians 5.

The Deep And Real Reason Behind This Blog’s Name

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What was I thinking when I named my blog???

Zero to Hero Challenge Day 2

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This assignment made me think about the name I chose for this blog and in doing that I realized that on the surface it’s a TERRIBLE NAME.
Who wants A REALLY FULL LIFE?
Everyone wants a SIMPLE LIFE.
AN EASY LEFE.
A PEACEFUL LIFE.
A PROSPEROUS LIFE.
MAYBE EVEN AN EXCITING LIFE, but not a full life—if you take full to mean hectic, frantic, exhausting, stuck in traffic, running around like a maniac life.

But the name comes from the idea of AN ABUNDANT LIFE.  It’s the kind of life Jesus said He came to give.

As in ~ MY CUP OVERFLOWS WITH BLESSING LIFE.
My life is really full.
Really full of family, friends, fun, fulfillment, and faith.
It’s the life Jesus offered to those who were willing, by faith, to follow Him.

I have A Really Full Life, but on any given day I’m a wreck.

Still in my sweats at noon, usually blogging.  Out of milk and not an idea what I’m making for dinner is not an unusual state of affairs for me.  I’m not a high powered productivity maven, I can barely keep up with the laundry and recycling.  I start projects I don’t finish.  I buy a whole entire cookbook and only make one recipe.   My Inbox is overflowing with hundreds of unread emails.  How did they even get my email?  And most days I wouldn’t change a thing!

It is not enough to be busy. . .The question is what are we busy about?
Henry David Thoreau

 I’m living the life God gave me, and loving it.  And it’s A REALLY FULL LIFE.

In a little more than a week my husband and I are off to Africa again for 6 weeks of ministry.  The conditions will be awful, but we’ll have a ball. We’ll drive hundreds of miles on roads that will shake the fillings out of your teeth.  It’ll be 113 degrees and there won’t be a bathroom within 50 miles.  There will be bugs.  Big bugs.  And spiders.  Big spiders.

But there will be people who are hungry to hear about God.  In the US everyone has heard.  Not really, but most act like you’re trying to sell them an expensive badly built vacuum instead of telling them how much God loves them.  There’s no scarcity of Biblical truth here and we’re such a rich nation it’s easy to ignore the deeper spiritual needs when there’s so much around to distract and preoccupy us.

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Speeding past New York City’s Waldorf Astoria Hotel.

This is how our lives go by.  Super fast.  It’s all a blur.  
I believe what the Bible teaches about life and death.
It’s kind of like the old beer commercial:  You only go around once, so you better grab all the gusto you can get.
BUT—I’d forget the gusto and focus on planning for what comes after this life.
Can we know for certain?

Regardless of what I say others will say no.
That’s where faith comes in.
Not just wishful thinking.  Faith.
Faith is an assurance of something hoped for based on the fact that God Almighty has promised it.
Like this.

Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, and everyone who lives and believes in me shall never die. Do you believe this?” She said to him, “Yes, Lord; I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, who is coming into the world.”
John 11:25-27

Jesus talked a lot about what happens after this life.  It’s like this life is a little point on a very long infinite, in fact, timeline.  I’m willing to live my life now based on what I believe I know to be true.
In case you were just here following the Zero To Hero Challenge and you feel we drifted into the deep waters, I’ll walk us back to the shallows with the immortal words of an NBA superstar.

I may be wrong, but I doubt it.
Charles Barkley

Are You Getting All the Good God Intended For You?

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Everything God made was good and intended to give us enjoyment and satisfaction.

Don’t even try to argue with this truth.

We have optic nerves and corresponding brain cells that perceive a vast array of colors and hues and bonus; the world is a virtual kaleidoscope of color. We have taste buds that enable us to actually enjoy the lush sweetness of a strawberry and the crisp tartness of citrus. Our sexual organs could function for reproduction without also delivering such sublime pleasure.

If God included in His designs the specifications that addressed our enjoyment as well as our needs, then doesn’t it stand to reason that His will for our lives will follow that pattern?

But for the most part it is we ourselves who are the roadblock, we are the chain link and barbed wire that separate the enjoyment and good God intends from the life we actually live every day.
I started reading Genesis again and this hit me like a Tsunami of spiritual truth.
As soon as Eve doubted God she began writing the Playbook for Doubt that we all now know by heart.

Faith is the most direct route to the good and enjoyment God designed for us.
Doubt casts a shadow on His love and good intentions.
And there’s something completely illogical and intellectually dishonest in trusting Him for our eternal salvation and doubting Him in our everyday lives.

You’ve Got to Get Out of the Boat: Faith Lessons

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Has Jesus called you out of the boat to walk on water?

If you’ve known Him very long, He has.
He’s still in the business of training disciples and He knows just how to raise the storm and make the waves crash all around us.

And if we have any curiosity about greater faith and walking toward Him, He calls us to get out of the boat and move toward Him.

When faced with a storm you gotta get out of the boat!

James says it this way,

Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds,
3 for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.
4 And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
5 If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.
6 But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind.
7 For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord;
8 he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.
James 1:2-8

We long for the completeness, for the maturity, to be steadfast.
But we have so little faith we get freaked out by the wind and waves and don’t listen to Him saying, “Hey, it’s me, cheer up, COME”.

Faith is the take home point of Christianity.
Without faith you and I are cut off from God’s grace and love.
We’re paralyzed by fear and panicked by the storm.

Sometimes I ask God to show me my life from His perspective.
I want to see every trial as the teachable moment He intends it to be.
I want to get the principle He’s trying to teach.
I want to experience the growth He knows I’m ready finally on the brink of realizing.

Have you noticed the talk about’leaning in’?
I think Sheryl Sandberg’s book has dropped it into the stream of consciousness, but it is a phrase every Christian should apply.

If we’d lean in to Jesus we’d find He can teach us to walk to Him on the water.
We’d discover that everything is possible with God.

The limitations we think exist for us can give way to opportunities.
The insurmountable problems we face can be successfully resolved.
And the fears we hide behind can lose all power over us when we see God’s purpose with inspiring clarity.

What do we have to do to have boldness of faith?
Faith gets stirred in our hearts when we really hear God’s promises.
Not with our ears, but with our hearts.
Think of the last time you were spiritually excited?
How long since you’ve felt God challenging you to take hold of a promise and step out in faith?
Trials are really special opportunities to walk by faith.
That’s what James is saying.
Consider it a unique joy to have the opportunity to trust God in a storm.
Let Him show you His power.

Jesus asked Peter, “Why’d you doubt Me?”

But Jesus immediately spoke to them, reassuring them. “Don’t be afraid!” he said.
28 Then Peter called to him: “Sir, if it is really you, tell me to come over to you, walking on the water.”
29 “All right,” the Lord said, “come along!”
So Peter went over the side of the boat and walked on the water toward Jesus.
30 But when he looked around at the high waves, he was terrified and began to sink. “Save me, Lord!” he shouted.
31 Instantly Jesus reached out his hand and rescued him. “O man of little faith,” Jesus said. “Why did you doubt me?”
Matthew 14:27-31

Faith is the assurance that God is true to His word.
His promises are always kept.

He’s made you lots of promises.
Which one do you need right now in your life to help you walk on water?

Smorgasbord: Please Choose What You Like

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Today we have a Smorgasbord of offerings that touch on the spiritual, physical, and practical aspects of our daily lives.

Get a short devotional message from Anne Graham Lotz delivered to your Inbox daily.
Anne is not only a serious Bible student and gifted teacher, she’s also a woman who has struggled with many of the same issues we face.
Every day her thoughts on God’s word speak faith and strength, peace and comfort into my life.
http://www.annegrahamlotz.com/resources/daily-devotional/

Find the resources and information you need to get and stay healthy. Dr. Kelly Brogan specializes in Holistic Women’s Health Psychiatry.
Begin with the two minute video message from Dr. Brogan for an introduction to her practice and how you can benefit from her research and discoveries.
Topics such as Insomnia, Gut Health/Immune System, Foods, and even Happiness are discussed in videos offered here.
Our hormones, pregnancy, childbirth, and even our diets can create health challenges unique to women.
I think you’ll find reliable and helpful information here.
And it’s all free and available at your convenience.
http://kellybroganmd.com/?utm_source=Kelly+Brogan+MD+Newsletter&utm_campaign=c6a3a90f6f-Website_Launch11_13_2013&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_d0f977a8c5-c6a3a90f6f-33293209

Achieve the changes you want and need with help from Lift.
Have you been wanting to start an exercise program, a consistent Daily Devotional practice, or Weekly Meal Planning?
Sometimes a little help with structure and planning are all we need to start something new and beneficial.
Get a little help from the good folks at Lift.
https://lift.do

Habit is either the best of servants or the worst of masters.
Nathaniel Emmons

Research indicates that it takes about 21 days to make create a new habit.
Start today and by Christmas you’ll have developed the habit of . . .

Two Home Maintenance Resources
Filtered water from the refrigerator tastes great.
It also helps cut down on grocery bills when we’re no longer buying, and lugging home, all those plastic bottles.
But, it only works if you actually change the filter periodically.
If you’re like me you have great intentions, but every time you think of it you remember you have to make a trip to Home Depot to buy a new filter first.
These nice people at FridgeFilters.com send me the right kind of filter at the right time.
They even send me reminder emails so that I don’t run out of filters.
I know they do this for their bottom line not my higher good, but either way it gets DONE.
Which it didn’t before I found them.
I file this under the Make it Easy on Yourself category.
http://www.fridgefilters.com

A Better Way to Clean Your Pipes
I have always kept a bottle of Liquid Plumber around to use if drains get slow.
I literally can’t stand a shower that keeps the icky water pooling around my feet.
It grosses me out.
Allow me to introduce you to Bio-Clean Septic Bacteria.
It smells bad, and you have to remember to use it for 5 consecutive days the first time, but it’s so worth it.
No more sluggish drains and it works in a good way, not in a harsh chemical way.
http://www.amazon.com/Bio-Clean-Bio-clean-Septic-Bacteria/dp/B001N09KN4

Let’s end where we began, with the spiritual

The Lies I Love to Hear.
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the lies I’m happy to believe and the truth I should tell myself instead.
The convenient self-serving lie is most often carnality in disguise.
No wonder I hang on so tightly.
So I’ve begun a collection of the truths I need to tell myself.
The first is about faith.

Tell Yourself the Truth
About Faith
I don’t need more faith; I need more sanctification.
It’s not that I don’t believe God can work in any and all
circumstances in my life; it’s really that I’m not convinced
His will is preferable to my will concerning my own life.
I think I will like my plans better.
I believe my choices for myself are better than God’s choices for me,
and by better, I don’t mean morally higher or spiritually superior,
I mean specifically that I will be happier with my own choices than
I will be with the choices God will make for my life.
My choices give me my way.
My choices make things easier for me.
My choices take back from God my life.
A life I surrendered to Him over 42 years ago.
My choices mean I have reneged on a commitment.
But, they don’t demonstrated God’s grace to others around me.
They don’t bring glory to His name.
They don’t bring lasting joy to me.
They produce no fruit unto righteousness.
They don’t please God.
This is really the truth.

What’s the favorite lie you tell yourself?
What’s the truth that can shatter that lie?

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